Choose a social course of action to improve the chance of Love Happening in your life. Some people, like writers and artists can experience the flow of Love through them in a solo setting, but often these experiences are fleeting and without support from like minded people, the absense of Love Happening can lead to self-destructive behaviors (see Melissa Gilber's TED talk). When you involve yourself socially in healthy relationships the chances for Love to Happen improve significanly. So get out and find friends who enjoy the same hobbies you do and collaborate with a positive oulook that Love will join in your collaborations.